I just want to be wonderful!

Why are you the most controlling person in the world! Back off and live your own life and let your 21 year old son do the same thing. At our age you were married and pregnant so lucky yous you didn’t have someone interfering with your relationship all the time. Just that’s what you are doing interfering!!! ALL our fights are about you, and how you treat him like a child! I feel awful saying all of this but I am beyond sick of this shit! Let him plan his own life and you do your own thing, he doesn’t have to have a family dinner and family time every night jeezeee!!!!